The Conceit of Low Self Esteem and the Pride of Humility

If you've low self-confidence, you may be enthusiastic about yourself. Which is merely a backwards form of conceit.
If you might have low self-esteem, you believe you're special. No-one is as low because you. No-one can be as undeserving as you. Everyone else in the world could be worth being treated well, of experiencing good relationships, financial success, health, spiritual connection, or something that you think that you do not deserve. Probably all that.
Here' image source : in the event you encountered someone else who thought the method that you do, you should think similar to, "no-one deserves to have such hard luck." Or "everyone deserves good health, and success, and good relationships."
In other words, you're harder on yourself than anyone else. Somehow you're so unique, so special, that ordinary human rights and dreams don't connect with you. It's similar to whatever they call "terminal uniqueness" inside recovery movement. Nothing ever works out for you personally, or ever will, and also you certainly don't worthy things go on your path anyhow.
Now when you bite my take off, allow me to say that you simply may not trust anything I said intellectually. That is, you'll comprehend it doesn't actually make any sense, but if you're honest on your own you'll admit that that's exactly your feelings anyway. You think one of the ways, and feel exactly the opposite.
Here's a secret: when you will find there's battle between your heart as well as the mind, guess what one wins? (Hint: it isn't really the pinnacle!) Every time.
So what's all of this in regards to the pride of humility, then? You have to have enough pride in yourself to realize that you are just as worthy, in the same way deserving of happiness and a rewarding life just like any other human being. You have to be humble enough to understand you're exactly like all others, and unique simultaneously. Just like all others.
We don't rate people on a scale. So-and-so doesn't measure up to my standards, so they will become stranded at the station if the train of life's goodies comes by. Or maybe so-and-so really gets a's and b's in my scale, so they gets an extra freightcar load of goodies.
Here's the purpose: you might be a human being. That qualifies you to definitely access it the happy train. If any person deserves it, so do you. Get over yourself. You're as effective as anyone else, as worthy of anyone else. Even if you've really screwed up, you deserve a second, third, fourth and endless chances the same as other people.
The real downside to this is not that you just can't continue with the logic. It's that your internal programs are screaming in denial so loudly that you simply literally cannot save this thought in your head in terms of yourself and believe it. On a scale of 0 to 10 where 0 equal completely false, and 10 equals completely true, if you just how true is it that you believe which you're value a fantastic life, you will appear in under 5. I'm guessing well under 5.
Well, the good news is there are methods to rewrite those internal programs once and for all, and it isn't going to take five years of therapy and hundreds and hundreds of dollars to get it done, although now and then that truly helps. You don't have to look inside mirror and bombard yourself with endless affirmations that you just don't believe either, although which has been proven to help also.
What works neatly, quickly and efficiently is energy medicine, or energy psychology. There are quite a few excellent methods and techniques available, and you need to find one which resonates along with you. I use meridian tapping techniques, especially Matrix Reimprinting, because I have found it to be especially helpful with permanent issues like this, but find what works and feels comfortable to suit your needs.
When you begin to completely feel safe in your skin, it is a great feeling. Do yourself - and everyone around you - the following favor, , nor deprive yourself of computer.